
đź’©đź’ĄWhen Constipation Causes More Than Just Tummy Trouble: What Every Parent Should Know
Let’s talk about poop. Not the cutest topic, but if you’re a parent, especially one navigating constipation in your child, you know how important it is. Constipation in kids isn’t just a physical issue; it can impact the whole household, especially when your child is in pain and can’t express it well. As a mom and certified Functional Lab Specialist, I’ve seen firsthand how unaddressed constipation can lead to emotional distress, aggressive behavior, headbanging, and even sleep disturbances.
đź§ Gut and Brain? Yes, They Connect and Talk!
Motility—the natural movement of the digestive tract is controlled by more than just fiber. It’s influenced by:
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Electrolytes and hydration
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Digestive enzymes and stomach acid
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Gut bacteria (especially Bifidobacterium and Acidophilus)
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Hormones (including progesterone and stress hormones)
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Neurotransmitters like serotonin (over 90% is made in the gut!)
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Nervous system balance (fight-or-flight vs. rest-and-digest)
So when your child is stressed, constipated, or eating triggering foods, their gut motility slows, and their behavior often reflects that.
⚠️ Red Flags We Often Miss
If your child is showing these signs regularly, constipation could be at the root:
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Resistance to potty or stool withholding
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Abdominal bloating or pain
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Headbanging or sensory overload
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Irritability, meltdowns, or spacing out
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Poor appetite or extreme food aversions
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Aggressive or anxious behavior without a clear trigger
I learned that just because they’re going doesn’t mean they’re clearing. Retained stools and incomplete evacuation are common, especially in kids with sensory issues or stress dominance.
🌿 A Gentle Approach That Works
What finally helped my son wasn’t a magic pill—it was a Constipation Support Protocol that focused on restoring balance instead of forcing a bowel movement. No harsh laxatives. Just targeted support like:
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Magnesium citrate to gently loosen the stool
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Alkalizing vitamin C for motility and antioxidant support
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Daily hydration with electrolytes
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High-fat whole foods (like avocado and olive oil)
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Physical activity and core movement ( jumping, swinging, crawling!)
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Gut healing support (via OAT and stool test-guided protocols)
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Stress reduction and parasympathetic activation (belly breathing, massage, calming routines)
We also used prunes and herbs like senna or cape aloe sparingly when needed, all backed by real clinical insight. Â
đź’Ś From One Mama to Another
If you’ve ever felt helpless watching your child struggle with constipation, please know you’re not alone. The right testing, a gentle approach, and targeted daily support can truly turn things around.
If we want our kids to thrive, we have to support their gut health from a nervous system and nutrient standpoint, not just add fiber or wait it out. I'm here to guide you if you're ready to take a functional, root-cause approach because healing starts from the inside out. 🧡
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